In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a form of assisted reproductive technology used for treating infertility. When you’re diagnosed with infertility, you and your doctor address the issues and, if possible, examine your treatment opportunities. IVF is a common treatment for many issues impacting your ability to conceive. But, if you aren’t familiar with the procedure you may have some confusion, concern and questions regarding the process. Here we aim to address the most pressing concerns shared by soon-to-be parents by offering 5 insights.
5 Insights About IVF
IVF offers an opportunity for you to conceive and carry a child and grow your family as you hoped. It’s not always a smooth road ahead and the journey from beginning to end may be difficult. We want you prepared for this journey of a lifetime. Yes, at times it’s a difficult one, but when it’s successful all the difficulties pale in comparison to your joy. Here are 5 insights about IVF soon-to-be parents want to know most.
- IVF is Very Time-Consuming
The IVF process certainly takes up a lot of space on your calendar. Your schedule seems jam-packed with tests and appointments and phone calls and medications. When you’re not discussing the next move with your fertility team, you’re on the way to an appointment or blood draw or picking up medication or giving yourself an injection. Your entire focus should become your IVF cycle. It honestly often feels like IVF takes over your life.
But consider the female cycle and all that goes into reproduction. You and your IVF team must coordinate ovulation at an optimum time for retrieving your eggs. Your uterus must be ready for embryo transfer. IVF is a finely tuned process and yes, it’s very time consuming. But your calendar won’t matter one bit when the outcome proves successful.
- You’ll Feel Pretty Rough
There’s no getting around it-you’ll feel pretty lousy most of the time during your IVF cycle. That’s, for the most part, because the IVF medications stimulate your ovaries using hormones. These hormones surge through your system and cause a very intense emotional and physical reaction. The most common side effects are:
- Headaches
- Fatigue
- Mood swings
- Nausea
- Cramping
- Bloating
- Breast tenderness
Along with these hormonal side effects, your doctor may advise against certain exercises known to trigger ovarian torsion, a painful and dangerous condition. Your doctor also advises against sexual activity at some point during your IVF cycle. It’s difficult however it’s temporary.
- Your Emotions May Take a Hit
The emotional upheaval of the IVF journey isn’t always related to medication. In fact, both partners should expect feelings of anxiety, overwhelm, sadness, depression, hope and, ultimately, joy. It’s not uncommon to experience feelings of detachment or helplessness during the IVF journey. So much is out of your control!
Find ways to cope with this emotional overload and prevent it from impacting your relationship. Schedule date night at your favorite restaurant or go to a movie. Stay in, order takeout and binge watch your favorite comedy. Journal, go for a walk or lunch with a friend. If things become too much ask your fertility clinic about support groups or counseling.
- IVF Success May Not Happen in One Cycle
The success rate for first IVF cycles may be less than 50%. That means you may weed more than one cycle of IVF to become pregnant. And keep in mind there may be options other than IVF or you could use donor eggs or sperm, if that’s an issue.
If IVF doesn’t work the first time don’t give up. If you can, try another cycle. Or discuss your options with your doctor. Your physician wants your dream of growing a family to come true.
- Find Strength in The Journey
Remember IVF is more marathon than sprint. With that in mind, you need ways to endure the course. Put yourself first and guard against unnecessary turmoil. Turn down invitations if the situation causes emotional discomfort. Baby showers, family gatherings where infants are present, or fielding questions from nosey friends and family can trigger some people. It’s OK to say “no”.
IVF may feel isolating at times especially if no one in your circle experienced it firsthand. Some people consider their IVF a personal affair and may share with just one or two very close friends or family members. Doing so prevents unnecessary and unwanted (and sometimes unwarranted) advice or suggestions, no matter how well-meaning.
Take care of your emotional health and keep stress at bay by doing things you enjoy. Crafts, journaling, walking in nature and meditation are some ways to support your mental health throughout your journey.
Reach Out
For additional insights about IVF please reach out to LA IVF. Learn more about all your options and available treatment. We’ll help you realize your goal of growing a family.
