Surrogacy
What is a Gestational Carrier / Surrogate?
A surrogate, also known as a gestational carrier, is someone who carries a pregnancy for a couple or individual who wants a child but can’t or choose not to carry a pregnancy. The intended parents may choose a surrogate of their choice, either through an agency or family/friend.
Why a Surrogate is Needed?
There are many different reasons couples and individuals use surrogates. Sometimes, there are uterine complications or underlying health issues that prevent a woman from carrying a pregnancy. In other circumstances, a same-sex male couple, or a single man, wants a biological child but needs a surrogate to carry the baby.
Here are the most common reasons for surrogacy:
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Hysterectomy
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Structural abnormalities of the uterus
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Multiple or large uterine fibroids
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Scarring inside the uterus
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Health condition like kidney disease, a serious heart condition, or diabetes.
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Recurrent miscarriage
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Transgender person or couples
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Same-sex male couple
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Personal choice
How to Find a Surrogate?
When choosing a surrogate who is a friend, family member or someone from an agency, keep these guidelines in mind:
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Choose someone who is over 21 and younger than 45.
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Have your potential surrogate undergo a psychological, uterine evaluation and thorough medical exam.
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Meet with an attorney and design a contract that reflects your agreement. Make sure your potential surrogate thoroughly understands her role and responsibilities, as well as those of the biological parents, throughout the process. You should outline specifics such as prenatal care, medical care, and her agreement to give the baby to you after birth.
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